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Flakes Anonymous

Flakes Anonymous

Flakes Anonymous: I would go,…But then I wouldn’t. As punny as that statement may seem, it is not until very recently, (last night in fact,) that I was told flaking would ultimately lead to my social doom. So flakes anonymous it is: “Hi, I’m Christina. I’m an introvert, a flake, and I have crippling social(…)

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Dear Mr. Williams

Dear Mr. Williams

The death of a celebrity can be a confusing time for a lot of people. Laugh if you will. As a species, people place exceptional human beings up on a pedestal as something to emulate; and often, this is a good thing. It pushes them to try harder because they know of someone who succeeded(…)

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Look Up!

Look Up!

‘Look Up’ – A spoken word film for an online generation. ‘Look Up’ is a lesson taught to us through a love story, in a world where we continue to find ways to make it easier for us to connect with one another, but always results in us spending more time alone. Written, Performed &(…)

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Maintaining a woman’s love

Maintaining a woman’s love

Love a woman as you would love a flower. We need tending, watering and sunshine. If we don’t get it, we will not bloom. We will shrivel and you will not get to enjoy us. I found this in a writing to a married friend from 2010. Pretty smart for my age, wasn’t I? 😉

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Game of Thrones – a thought

Ask me the time when man was ever free, and I shall tell you the day before man developed the ego.

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The Economics of Sex

The Economics of Sex

Preface: A conversation discussing why my girlfriend is having such a hard time with the dating scene. She has reached a time in her life where a husband is the desired outcome. Xtina: with men, sex is a priority with women, love is a priority This mismatch in ‘dating’ is unfortunate, but true. My ex(…)

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An Unusual Conundrum

"When you change medications, you have an unusual conundrum: Each emotion/reaction felt is now untrustworthy. You cannot tell whether the feeling comes from you (real), the medication's effects, or perhaps even PMS. How are we to tell what is right? Even the knowledge of this conundrum complicates the experience even further, as now you're feeling(…)

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It’s Not Personal

It’s Not Personal

Not everything someone does that displeases you, is really about you at all. Stop taking their issues personally. Don’t let their crap ruin your day, because it’s really not yours to deal with, nor to judge.  

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Affirmations

Firstly, I'll admit to this being a long post. My apologies, but it is worth it. Random Thoughts (in no particular order) I believe that relationships are like cars… Cars require maintenance constantly, but we depend on them to get us where we are going. So, rather than refuse to maintain our vehicle, we grump(…)

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Words of Peace

Better than a thousand hollow words Is one word that brings peace.

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